Starting again the dating scene is not always an easy thing. Especially in case you are still hesitating over win back your ex or let this situation go because you are not enough ready to do this. Nevertheless, you may get many benefits when getting back in the dating arena and putting yourself out.
Let's consider why.
During the actual break up fight, things are said to hurt the other and truths are told that were never told during the relationship. This often leaves someone or both parties feeling down about themselves.
You tend to bounce back after that someone new sees you for who you are. Your confidence level shoots right back up. Who knows, you may even forget about all of the heartache you were feeling immediately after your breakup. Wouldn't that be a nice thing? Believe it or not, many people benefit from rebounds for that very reason.
A small suggestion here which may help is a rebound relationship.
That's not necessarily a good way of saying it, but the idea of it could be a good thing for you to consider.
A rebound is supposed to be fun and not long lasting. They are just there to help you to feel better about yourself and your newly found single-ness.
Your ex may also have a rebound and that's okay since it isn't meant to be anything serious. Most don't last longer than a couple weeks.
The main reason is to allow the person giving you all this new found attention to help you reclaim your cheerfulness and take away the loneliness of being dumped.
After the rebound situation, you will be more confident then after your break up and confidence is a very attractive trait.
Your ex may even notice this about you. You can then decide for yourself if you are willing to give him or her another chance.
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